What do you do when you want to be supportive of your spouse but you really disagree with the way they handled a situation? Do you interrupt the exchange between your spouse and your kids and try to mediate? Do you wait and bring it up with your spouse at a later time (out of earshot of the kids)? What if it's a situation that is quickly escalating and you know you could diffuse it instantaneously if they would just let you handle it? Do you intervene? Or is it better to present a united front to your kids, regardless of whether you are truly in agreement?